A Soy Latte Girl on a BYO Tea Bag Budget
Like most college students, I survive off of coffee, and not just at finals. As a little girl, I use to see my mom wake up in the morning and be incoherent until the first cup of hot java was in her hands. I would shake my head at her addiction and swear that coffee would never affect me like that and I refused to drink it. That changed when I went to college and suddenly cappuccinos seemed like the cool thing to do. Now of course, as afore said, I am addicted. And I personally think that is okay, however, my pocketbook tends to disagree with me.
I am a coffee connoisseur; don’t give me cheap gas station coffee, or even a thermos from a well-known family restaurant; I want the best. Not into the commercialism of nationwide chains, I instead found this awesome little coffee shop across from my mid-west school called Nordaggio’s. Nordaggio’s has this cool artsy-vibe going on, yet in a quaint way. There is a huge river-rock fireplace and recreated masterpieces on the wall painted in espresso. Like a comfortable shoe you’ve had for years, there are scuffs on the hardwood floors and the oversized brown leather sofas with that well-worn look to it and they fit the place perfectly. It’s home for a lot of college students including my friend Tanner and I who study there almost every day. Despite the cool interior, the only downfall is its pricey items. However, they have the best latte in town so how can I resist? Nord’s, therefore, gets part of their rent officially paid from me, and my bank account is well aware of it. And I don’t get just a regular cup of coffee either. No, I have to get a soy latte of course, and at $4.50 for a tall cup my well-fed college student days are ending. What can I say? I like nice things, and I think that’s okay but I have struggled for the longest time about wanting to buy a latte when I can barely afford a tea. So sometimes I’ll steal from my gas money or secretly reach for the credit card whose bill goes to my father’s home and take my drink back to my little corner table where I will take up residence for the rest of the evening and feel somewhat guilty for the first hour or so until the remnant of the oversized mug is removed.
As faithfully as I will plunk down my decreasing funds, Tanner, on the other hand, will faithfully plunk down a quarter for a mug of hot water and produce his own British blend tea bag from his backpack. Everyday another quarter emerges, and frankly, I use to look at Tanner as somewhat of a tight-wad. After all, he works 20+ hours a week and has the extra money to spend if he so chose on a doppio espresso.
One day last spring, while a storm was raging outside and the tornado sirens were blaring in the background, Tanner broke his usual mold. Perhaps because the storm made him nervous, or most likely because I was fretting and his native-Oklahoma self was becoming annoyed, Tanner bought a vanilla latte and extra-large blueberry muffin setting him back at least 7 bucks. He carefully placed the nearly overflowing latte on the table and took a giant bite of his muffin. “I look forward to when I can do this everyday,” he said as he settled down in his chair.
That statement made me smile then, but has loomed up in front of me recently. In Luke 6:38, Jesus said, “Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.” In other words, responsibility is given to us, and we must us it wisely if He is to give us more to be responsible for. And as much as I want a soy latte now, I have to remember that I am a college student for this time in my life and sometimes cutting corners is necessary. And it is only a time, not forever. Some day, when I have a career and God blesses it, I will be able to go buy small things like lattes and muffins every day; but I also want to do big things too like funding mission hospitals and children in orphanages, therefore I must get a check on my responsibilities now to enable God to use me with big things in the future.
And so, I still go to Nordaggio’s everyday but I always keep in my backpack a stash of tea bags which I alternate with regular cups of coffee (I'm learning). But once and awhile I’ll splurge and buy the occasional latte; I’m still trying to make it through college after all.


